Saturday, August 17, 2013
KUMBUKUMBU YA MAMA ALANA NGONYANI!
Saturday, November 10, 2012
JUMAMOSI YA LEO NAPENDA KUSEMA:- AHSANTE MAMA MUNGU AKUPE KHERI DAIMA!!!
Friday, September 28, 2012
Being a Mother/KUWA MAMA
After 17 years of marriage, my wife wanted me totake another woman out to dinner and a movie. She said, 'I love you, but I know this other woman loves you and would love to spend some time with you.'
The other woman that my wife wanted me to visitwas my MOTHER, who has been alone for 20 years, but the demands of my work and my two boys had made it possible to visit her only occasionally. That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie. 'What's wrong, aren't you well,' she asked? My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news. 'I thought it would be pleasant to spend some time with you,' I responded. 'Just the two of us.' She thought about it for a moment, and then said, 'I would like that very much.' That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited in the door. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last birthday on November 19th. She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel's. 'I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed,' she said, as she got into that new white van. 'They can't wait to hear about our date'. We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady. After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Her eyes could only read large print. Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips. 'It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small,' she said. 'Then it's time that you relax and let me return the favor,' I responded. During the dinner, we had an agreeableconversation- -nothing extraordinary but catching up on recent events of each other's life. We talked so much that we missed the movie. As we arrived at her house later, she said, 'I'll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you.' I agreed. 'How was your dinner date ?' asked my wife when I got home. 'Very nice. Much more so than I could have imagined,' I answered.
A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I didn't have a chance to do anything for her. Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place mother and I had dined. An attached note said: 'I paid this bill in advance. I wasn't sure that I could be there; but nevertheless, I paid for two plates - one for you and the other for your wife.You will never know what that night meant for me.I love you, son.'
At that moment, I understood the importance of saying in time: 'I LOVE YOU' and to give our loved
ones the time that they deserve. Nothing in life is more important than your family. Give them the time
they deserve, because these things cannot be put off till 'some other time.'
Somebody said it takes about six weeks to get back to normal after you've had a baby..... somebody
doesn't know that once you're a mother, 'normal' is history. Somebody said you learn how to be a mother by instinct ... . Somebody said being a mother is boring ....somebody never rode in a car driven by a teenager with a driver's permit.
Somebody said if you're a'good' mother, your child will 'turn out good'....somebody thinks a child comes with
directions and a guarantee.Somebody said you don't need an education to be amother.... somebody never helped a fourth grader with his math.
Somebody said you can't love the second child as much as you love the first ..... somebody doesn't
have two children. Somebody said the hardest part of being a mother is labor and delivery....
somebody never watched her 'baby' get on the bus for the first day of kindergarten ...
or on a plane headed for military 'boot camp.' Somebody said a mother can stop worrying after her
child gets married....somebody doesn't know that marriage adds a new son or daughter-in-law to a
mother's heartstrings. Somebody said a mother's job is done when
her last child leaves home..... · somebody never had grandchildren. Somebody said your mother knows you love her, so you don't need to tell her.... Somebody isn't a mother.
This isn't just about being a mother; it's about appreciating the people in your life while you have them....no
matter who that person is.
Monday, September 10, 2012
JUMATATU YA LEO TUANZE KIHIVI..AKINA MAMA/TUNATOKA SHAMBANI KUMALIZIA KUVUNA!!
Na hapa ni sasa napo ni vivyo hivyo akina mama /dada wakitoka shamba wengine wamebeba vikapu na kitu ndani na wengine kuni na pia baadhi wamebeba watoto mgongoni ..Je hapa si kweli kwamba akina mama ni ngozo ya familia/jamii?
Friday, August 17, 2012
KUMBUKUMBU:- LEO NI MIAKA NANE (8) KAMILI TANGU MAMA YETU ALANA NGONYANI ATUTOKE!!
Na ndiyo maana hii siku sitaisahau maishani mwangu..ilikuwa saa kumi jioni nimetoka kazini na nilikuwa nimepanga muda huo waandishi wa habari wa gazeti la habari mpya za kanisa "Kyrknytt" waje wanipige picha. Kwasababu nilikuwa muhusika mkuu katika gazeti hilo. Ilikuwa mada kuhusi wamisionari wa Peramiho/Songea. Walikuwa na bahati sana wanamaliza tu kupiga zile picha na simu inalia/ita na ndiyo tukapewa habari kuwa mama yetu mpenzi hatunaye tena. Ndiyo maana hili gazeti/picha hii ni kumbukumbu kubwa sana kwangu.
NITAKUKUMBUKA NA KUKUPENDA DAIMA MAMA!!
Wednesday, July 4, 2012
MAMA MZAZI NA MAMA WA KAMBO.!!!!
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Naamini HAKUNA mama anapenda kuwa MAMA WA KAMBO.Hakuna mwanamke anazaliwa kuwa MAMA WA KAMBO.Mama yeyote yule anaweza kuwa MAMA WA KAMBO baada ya kuwa na sifa ya kuwa MAMA.
Sifa moja wapo ya kuwa mama ni
..Uwezo wa kubeba, kuzaa kiumbe, kunyonyesha, kuhudumia, kukitibu kiumbe mtoto...
Mwanamke bila mtoto hawezi kuitwa MAMA.
Sasa basi......Mwanamke yeyote yule ambaye kajifungua mtoto anaweza kuwa MAMA wa KAMBO.
Baadhi ya Sifa za MAMA WA KAMBO.
KATILI.
JEURI.
MBINFASI.
Kabla Mama hajaitwa MAMA WA KAMBO hana hizo zifa za MAMA WA KAMBO lakini akishaukwaa UMAMA WA KAMBO basi ananyakua hizo sifa.
SWALI.
Hii siku ya mama duania inawahusu na MAMA WA KAMBO?
Labda twende mpaka huko Botswana na kumalia na wimbo huu STEPMOTHER/MAMA WA KAMBO...
TUACHE UKATILI AKIMA MAMA..MTOTO WA MWENZAKO NI WAKO NA WAKO WA MWENZAKO.....
Sunday, May 27, 2012
LEO NI SIKU YA AKIMNA MAMA (MORS DAG)
Tuesday, January 17, 2012
TAREHE 17 YA MWEZI WOWOTE ULE INANIFANYA NIMKUMBUKE SANA MAMA YANGU!!
Sijui nina nini kila mwezi ifikapo tarehe 17 huwa ninakosa raha sana. Kwa hiyo leo mtaniwia radhi kama sitakuwa mtembezi katika vibaraza vingine pia kama nitamjibu mtu ovyo, Yasinta/kapulya
Monday, September 26, 2011
MWANAMKE WA SHOKA WANGARI MUTA MAATHAI AMETUACHA!!!

Wednesday, August 17, 2011
JUMATANO YA MARUDIO/KUMBUKUMBU..LEO NI KUMBUKUMBU YA MAMA YETU ALANA NGONYANI MIAKA SABA SASA HATUNAYE KIMWILI!!!
NI MIAKA SABA LEO TANGU UTUACHE MAMA
Hapo ni mama Alana ni huyo aliyekaa na mimi
nikimsuka mwaka 1997 kijijini Mahumbato Mbinga!!!
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Nimeamka leo nikiwa na majonzi mengi kwani hii tarehe huwa inanikumbusha sana mama. Kwani ndio ilikuwa pia JUMATANO ya tarehe 17/8/2004, ambayo alituacha kwa hiyo leo ni miaka 7. Nina mengi ya kuongea nawe mama, kuna wakati huwa nadhani upo nasi na nachukua simu na nataka kuongea nawe, nataka kuisikia sauti yako, kicheko chako pia kukuomba ushauri/mawazo. Na mwisho nabaki nikitoa machozi. Mweeh!!!.
Halafu natamani kweli kukusimulia jinsi wajukuu wako wanavyoendelea pia makuzi yao. Wao pia wanakukumbuka sana. Unakumbuka mara ya mwisho mwaka 2001, uliwapa zawadi Camilla ukamnunulia gauni na Erik shati na kaputula, bado wanavitunza mpaka leo. Na wanaviabudu mno.
Najua unanisikia huko uliko, sisi wote tunakukumbuka sana mama Ustarehe kwa Amani. SISI TULIKUPENDA LAKINI MWENYEZI MUNGU ANAKUPENDA ZAIDI. AMINA.
Sunday, May 29, 2011
Na hizi ni zawadi nilizopata kwa siku hii ya akina mama!!!
Akisema:- Kwa mama,mama nakupenda, nakupenda kwa sababu wakati ninapokuhitaji upo. Unanisaidia, unapika chakula ktamu mmhh:-) nakupenda mama.Bila kupinga wewe ni mama bora.Mama wewe ni mwema, mwenye mawazo mazuri, mwenye furaha, mchekeshaji, cool, wewe ni bora na wewe ni wewe tu:-) HONGERA KWA SIKU YA MAMA NA WE NA SIKU NJEMA SANA YENYE FURAHA:-) NAPENDA KUKUKUMBATIA/Erik
Zawadi kutoka kwa binti Camilla na kijana Erik
Maneno hayohapo juu ya hiyo foronya ya mto yanasema hakuna kama wewe mamaNa hapa ni scarf:-) inapatikaka KappAhl
Wednesday, February 9, 2011
BABA NA MAMA, NI NANI AMBAYE HAKUCHEZA MCHEZO HUU?
Mingi ya michezo tulioshiriki ni huu wa baba na mama ambao kule kwetu Songea tumezoea kuuita Madangi.
Mchezo huu wa baba na mama huchezwa na watoto kwa kuwaiga wazazi wafanyavyo kwa kuigiza mambo ya mapishi na mambo ya mapenzi ya kitoto.
Mchezo wa Mapenzi ya kitoto ndio ambao ningependa kuuzungumzia leo. Naamini karibu wote sisi, hakuna ambaye hajapitia mchezo huu. Inasemekana watu saba kati ya kumi miongoni mwetu, hakuna asiyefahamu mchezo huo.
Hata hivyo takwimu zisizo rasmi zinaonyesha kwamba watoto wa kiume ndio wanaoshiriki zaidi mchezo huu wa mapenzi ya utotoni kwa asilimia 85, ukilinganisha na watoto wa kike ambao wao hushiriki kwa kiwango cha asilimia 75.
Mchezo huu kiukweli hauna madhara yoyote kwa kuwa washiriki wote ni watoto, isipokuwa, adhabu na kauli zinazotolewa na wazazi hugeuka sumu.
Hebu fikiria watoto wanafumaniwa na mzazi wakicheza mchezo huu wa mapenzi ya kitoto, mzazi huyo anatoa adhabu ya viboko kwa watoto hao kisha kuwaita watoto hao kuwa ni wajinga na shetani wakubwa kwa kufanya jambo hilo ambalo wakati huo litabatizwa jina la mchezo mchafu na usiofaa kabisa, na mara nyingi kauli hizi kuelekezwa kwa mtoto wa kike, lakini mtoto wa kiume huachwa tu kwani kwa wazazi wengine huonekana ni shujaa.
Mara nyingi kile tulichoambiwa utotoni ndivyo tunavyokichukulia hata ukubwani, kwa hiyo zile adhabu za kuchapwa bakora na kuambiwa kuwa huo ni mchezo mchafu na wa kishetani, hubaki akilini mwetu hata leo na ndio maana tendo la ndoa miongoni mwetu hasa wanawake linabeba taswira ya kitu cha aibu na kisichofaa. Hii inatokana na zile kauli tulizoambiwa utotoni kuwa mchezo huo ni mbaya na wa kishetani.
Wanawake ndio wahanga wa kauli hizi na ndio maana hata wale walioko kwenye ndoa wanakosa uhuru wa kujieleza kwa wenzi wao kutoridhishwa na tendo la ndoa inakuwa ni vigumu. Atawezaje kujieleza wakati alimbiwa kuwa huo ni mchezo mchafu na wa kishetani usiofaa hata chembe kufanywa na mwanaadamu?
Unaweza kukuta mwanamke ameolewa lakini hawezi kuwa huru kumueleza mwenzi wake hisia zake za kimapenzi kwa sababu ya kauli hizi kukaa kichwani na kuhisi aibu.
Kwa hiyo kwa kutumia sauti za wazazi wetu au walezi wetu na sauti ya jamii tunalitazama tendo la ndoa kama uchafu ili hali tunalihitaji na ni muhimu ili tuendelee kuwepo.
Friday, December 17, 2010
KUMBUKUMBU KWA MAMA YETU ALANA NGONYANI!!!!
Halafu natamani kweli kukusimulia jinsi wajukuu wako wanavyoendelea pia makuzi yao. Wao pia wanakukumbuka sana. Unakumbuka mara ya mwisho uliwapa zawadi Camilla ukamnunulia gauni na Erik shati na kaputula, bado wanavitunza mpaka leo. Na wanaviabudu mno.
Najua unanisikia huko uliko, sisi wote tunakukumbuka sana mama Ustarehe kwa Amani. SISI TULIKUPENDA LAKINI MWENYEZI MUNGU ANAKUPENDA ZAIDI. AMINA.
AU MIMI NAMI NIKUKUMBUKE KWA WIMBO HUU HAPA CHINI NA KAKA ALBINO FULANI!!!!
Thursday, November 25, 2010
UTAFITI: KUNYONYESHA HUZUIA KANSA YA MATITI KWA ASILIMIA 25-60
Tusiacha kunyonyesha vichanga wetu jamaniHizi ni habari njema kwa akina mama wa Afrika ambao kimsingi huchukulia kunyonyesha kama mojawapo ya wajibu wao baada ya kupata mtoto. Pengine hii inaweza kuwa ndiyo sababu iliyofanya saratani ya matiti isijidhihirishe sana Afrika.
Wasiwasi wangu ni juu ya kizazi kipya ambacho kinaiga mambo ya Kimagharibi kwa pupa. Nimeshasikia kwamba mabinti wengi sasa hawana hamu tena ya kunyonyesha vichanga vyao wakichelea kuharibu matiti na miili yao. Ukijumlisha na vitu vingine vinavyoingia Afrika vikiwemo vyakula vilivyolimwa "kisayansi", madawa na mabadiliko mazima ya mfumo wetu wa maisha, sitashangaa kama kansa itafumuka na kuwa ugonjwa wa kawaida tu muda si mrefu ujao. Hili likitokea, atakayefaidika bila shaka ni makampuni ya madawa ya nchi za Kimagharibi - na naamini kwamba hiki ndicho wanachotaka. Tuweni waangalifu na tuache mambo ya kuiga vitu kiholela bila kuelewa hasa kiini chake.
Ukitaka kusoma zaidi gonga hapa.
Friday, November 19, 2010
NIMEUPENDA UBINIFU HUU!!!!
Saturday, August 21, 2010
Sunday, May 30, 2010
LEO HAPA NI SIKU YA AKINA MAMA/MORS DAG!!!
Ok, basi nami nimepata nafasi ya kusema machache ni kwamba. Najua sehemu nyingine siku hii imeshapita ila hapa Sweden ni leo. nami napenda kuwapa pongezi akina mama wote duniani bila kumsaau mamangu.Ingawa hayupo nasi kiwili lakini kiroho yupo nasi Ahsante mama. Pia napenda kuwapongeza akina bibi, shangazi, mama wakwe na mabinti woote katika dunia hii
Hapa ni binti mwingine na mama yake jana 29/5 /2010 Sweden
Hapa Sweden leo ni siku ya akina mama duniani. Nasi leo tumeamua kumpongeza mametu mpendwa ktk blog yake ni sisi Camilla na Erik. Tunampenda sana mametu hasa akiwa na hasira, huwa tunapata kila kitu tutakachotaka.( kwa niaba ya mama) Pia pongezi nyingi kwenu akina kaka babu, baba, mjomba na vijana wote kwani bila uweopo wenu basi tusingekuwepo hapa duniani.
Hakuna sherehe bila mziki nami nimeona mziki huu utafaa siku hii ya leo Haya karibuni tumsikilize dada Emmy Kosgei akiuliza nani kama mama? katika wimbo wake huu!!
NA PIA NATAKA KUWATAKIENI WOTE JUMAPILI HII YA MWISHO WA MWEZI HUU WA TANO MUWE NA WAKATI MZURI SANA WOOOTE JUMAPILI NJEMA SANA!!
Friday, October 2, 2009
HONGERA KWA SIKU YA KUZALIWA MAMA
Baada ya kusikiliza mziki huu nikakawa nimeguswa sana. Nikeona si mbaya kama nikiweka hapa kwani najua wote tuna ujumbe mmoja. HONGERA SANA MAMA KWA SIKU YAKO YA KUZALIWA LEO UNATIMIZA MIAKA 57. HONGERA MAMA NAJUA UNANISIKIA.
Ngoja kwa pamoja tusikilize ujumbe huu
Monday, August 24, 2009
Monday, August 17, 2009
KUMBUKUMBU YA MAMA YETU
Kutokana na pengo kubwa ulilotuachia na lisilozibika sisi watoto wako, mume wako, wajukuu wako, wakamwana na mkwe pia ndugu, marafiki na jamaa bado tupo nawe kwa njia ya sala na maombi. Kwa kuwa tunaamini kuwa Mwenyezi Mungu mwenye huruma amekupokea katika makao yake huko Mbinguni.
Kwa niaba ya familia ya marehemu tunawashukuru wote mliotusaidia na kujiunga nasi kwa hali na mali katika kuokoa uhai wa marehemu.
Aidha, tunawashukuru kwa sala katika kumsindikiza kwenye shamba la Mungu(pale Mkurumo) Mungu awarudishie mara mia wote mliojitolea kutusaidia.
Ee Mwenyezi Mungu umpokee mama yetu katika ufalme wako huko Mbinguni, Astarehe kwa Amani. Amina









